Blame, justifications, excuses and judgements are just giving your pain a reason to exist!

It is easy to point the finger…but have you noticed that when you do you have 3 fingers pointing straight back at you? This is because it is our responsibility to make ourselves happy, it is our responsibility to take control of our own lives and all that we don’t like, don’t want and don’t need. When we expect someone or something outside of ourselves to make us happy or to be who we think they should be, then we are going to learn a big lesson in self-love and acceptance.  When we step back and take responsibility for the situation, yes, even if it’s out of your control and perceived to be created by someone else. This is because A. you attracted this situation in and B. you have choices about what you can do about it and what you can learn from it. When you bring your attention back to the solution rather than the problem, and away from trying to get others to change. You take back your responsibility which is empowering rather than being left at the mercy of others which is dis-empowering. What can you learn from this situation? What do you need to evolve within yourself so you don’t attract this in and repeat it again? Choose to brave and face those 3 fingers pointing back at you. Soul Hugs Julie Kay xx